Psychological Maturity Test

I try to fulfill all my duties to society before thinking about my own dreams.

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I always try to focus only on my victories and strengths, not on my failures and setbacks.

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I often ask myself uncomfortable questions to make sure I am not deceiving myself.

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If I wanted to start my own business but my close ones did not approve, I would not go forward — moving without their support is foolish

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I am able to notice my strong qualities and work on improving them.

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I cannot find peace when people notice my flaws.

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I do not spend my time on people who cannot notice and acknowledge my achievements.

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How comfortable are you when your parents want to help you and decide to solve your family or other problems for you?

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I strive for perfection and will not accept myself until I achieve it.

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When I am around people, I can be exactly who I am.

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In a team or family, I try to stand out through my achievements and receive recognition or praise.

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If something goes wrong in life, I try to understand my mistake.

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If even one person in a group disapproves of my opinion, I can lose my train of thought and confidence.

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I do not argue or react when people swear at or insult me during a dispute.

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If several people criticize me, I begin to consider that perhaps I am wrong.

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I always try to do everything correctly, as people expect of me, even if it causes me difficulties.

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I show my true self to no one, so almost nobody knows who I really am.

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I am confident that I have enough strong qualities.

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When I read a book or watch a film, I pay attention to some details but forget to grasp the overall idea.

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If I hear a new word several times, I try to understand its meaning through intuition rather than looking it up in a dictionary.

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I believe that to become a master in any field, one must follow the full path of former masters from start to finish, thoroughly study all their theories, and become exactly like them.

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I can almost perfectly replicate another person's words, facial expressions, and movements.

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If I believe in something, I do not change my beliefs even if my close ones bring arguments against them.

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If two doctors give me contradictory diagnoses, I seek the opinion of a third specialist.

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I often ask others how they understood a book or film, because I don't quite get it on the first read or watch.

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In any matter, if contradictions and inconsistencies arise, I immediately try to reconsider my beliefs and conclusions.

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I am able to retell books and films fairly accurately, without distorting them or adding unnecessary color.

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In a difficult, dead-end situation, I am able to step back, look at it from a different angle, and come up with a brilliant new solution.

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I only like the humanities — literature, history, foreign languages — and dislike exact sciences like mathematics.

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I dislike explaining something a second time to people I have already told.

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I know how to trust and delegate, so I hand over almost any important or complex task to professionals without getting into the details.

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I boldly invest my money in projects promising 3% monthly returns, even when friends try to talk me out of it — I believe those who don't take risks don't reap the rewards.

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Do you believe there are people who wish you harm and spend their time thinking only about how to make your life worse?

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I am able to explain and convey complex things in simple words to any person.

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I speak up and tell my parents about their shortcomings in time, so they can work on themselves and improve.

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In general, I live without tension, because as long as my parents are alive, they can support me.

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I often argue with my parents and point out their mistakes, because they are frequently wrong and unfair in their actions.

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If my partner and my parents have a conflict, I will choose my parents — even if my partner is right — because parents are sacred.

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So that my parents do not blame me, I prefer that they make the important decisions in my life.

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I live with my parents and feel quite comfortable.

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If I had to choose between giving money to my children or my parents for the same purpose, I would of course choose my parents.

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It upsets me when I see that other people's parents have better character and behavior than mine.

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If I fall deeply in love with someone but my parents are against it, I will obey my parents and give up that person — a partner can be replaced, but parents cannot.

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It is very hard for me to forgive my parents, because they deeply traumatized my psyche.

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I am ready to choose a profession or business that I like, even if my parents do not approve.

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On important matters, I consult my parents for full confidence.

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In relationships, things always start well, but then conflicts with my partner become more and more frequent.

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I am afraid of losing my partner, so I try to protect our relationship from rivals and enemies as much as possible.

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I do not enjoy sex, because for me sex is something dirty.

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I try to find a common interest for my partner so that we have completely identical interests, goals, and hobbies.

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It upsets me that I never meet ideal men/women in my life.

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It upsets me that in relationships, everyone only wants money or sex from me.

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My partner often triggers aggression in me with accusations and reproaches, even though we had already addressed that topic before.

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I try not to fall in love, because love and separation hurt deeply and make a person weak.

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I am ready to change myself to please my partner as much as possible, even to give up my own principles.

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I believe that oral sex and role-playing are perversions.

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It greatly upsets me that my partner does not work on themselves and does not develop.

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If my partner cheats on me, I will never forgive them.

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I actively work to correct my partner's flaws, because people must strive for perfection.

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I am ready to stay in a relationship even if it brings me no happiness, because loneliness and divorce are even worse.

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I can go for days or even weeks without expressing my grievance to my partner, because I don't like arguing over trivial things.

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It irritates me when my partner starts showing weakness in the relationship.

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My partner often confides their weaknesses, shortcomings, and deepest secrets.

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I always want to help my partner, but they get angry and ask me not to interfere in their affairs.

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It seems to me that my partner has too many secrets and secrets from me.

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I can forgive infidelity and betrayal if it was committed out of foolishness and misunderstanding, and if my partner has acknowledged their mistakes.

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I respect myself enough not to allow people to criticize me at work.

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I prefer a job where accountability is demanded and discipline is closely monitored.

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I prefer my work to be evaluated through praise, not criticism.

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I focus more on improving my quality and competence than on monitoring the market and competition.

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I don't like to burden myself with deadlines, tasks, and discipline at work — I prefer to catch a creative mood.

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If my business ran at a loss for 3 years in a row, I would still continue to try to make it profitable.

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I look for a source of income where money comes with minimal effort — or better yet, no effort at all.

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I believe that all wealthy people succeeded because they happened to be in the right place at the right time.

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If I take on a task at work, I can make everyone work around my schedule without being distracted by their complaints.

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I don't like a job or business where someone points out my mistakes.

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I always set very high goals — ones that are even slightly out of reach.

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I dislike orders and assignments, so I choose fields where I am my own boss and calmly turn down jobs with great potential.

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If something old has stopped being useful and no longer works, I can start something new.

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Before buying something or investing in anything, I think through how much I can afford financially.

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Rules can be broken in any endeavor if it leads to greater success — the key is to do it cleverly and unnoticed.

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If routine increases at work, I quit, even if the job pays very well and has growth potential.

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I enjoy monotonous and routine work, because there is no need to take risks or rack my brain.

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To earn a high income, I am willing to work hard.

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If I gave someone a verbal promise, I always try to keep it, even if it costs me.

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Sometimes it is easier for me to come up with a plausible excuse than to take a long time admitting mistakes and diving into them.

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I usually calmly move on to a new task even when I have many unfinished tasks.

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If offered a stable job at $1,000 with potential for promotion, and another project with a small chance of earning $10,000, would you choose the first option?

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I change jobs or fields every 2–3 years, because I want to try myself in new areas.

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I believe that in any business or job, it is more important to focus on relationships with key people than on quality and professionalism.

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Big money and big success are only possible through smart rule-breaking, because rules exist to keep everyone in poverty and failure.

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I always try to complete all tasks I have started.

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Before asking someone for an answer or advice, I always check whether they have time or whether I am interrupting them.

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If a very profitable opportunity comes along, I can calmly drop my current job or project and seize it.

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I prefer fields where I am in charge and giving orders rather than receiving them. I would rather be out of the game than be second.

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If I did not sign a contract and it becomes difficult for me to fulfill obligations, I can calmly opt out — it is no longer my fault.

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My friends rarely share their secrets with me — I usually find out about them from other people.

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In negotiations and discussions, it often happens that people believe me even when I am not making a special effort to persuade them.

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If I want something from people, I can engage them with my arguments and get their agreement.

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I can calmly discuss others' secrets if I consider them unimportant or not serious.

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If there has been a misunderstanding with friends, I can calmly take the first step toward reconciliation.

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I believe that every friendship must have boundaries — so if someone takes from me but gives nothing in return, I set limits.

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When I see that someone is offended at me, I try to draw them into a conversation and discuss their grievances or complaints.

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My friends often take offense or stop being friends with me, calling me a stubborn egoist.

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My arguments usually do not last long, because I know how to find a solution that works for everyone.

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I respect myself enough never to make the first move when meeting people.

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Friends always come to me for help, because I always take an interest in their lives.

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I respect and value the interests of my friends.

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It is easier for me to stay silent than to start a conflict.

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In friendship, I always give more than I receive.

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If I have done everything I can but the problem remains unsolved, I usually step back, try to decompress, and look at the issue from a different angle.

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If a person has unquestionably treated me badly, despite my treating them well, I believe the fault lies entirely with them and none with me.

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Before deciding whether a certain act is a sin, I consult religious people or study the holy book.

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If a problem persists for a long time, I still try to solve it first and only rest afterward — even when I am already exhausted.

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When a failure happens to me, I try to understand what negative thoughts or actions of mine attracted that event, and draw conclusions.

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When I commit sins (thinking about deviant sex or masturbating), I later feel fear toward the Almighty.

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I believe that a person who has committed a crime but practices religion has a better chance of entering paradise than a non-believer who has never done anything bad.

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It upsets me when my managers do not see how much I sacrifice my personal life and give everything to work.

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When I realize that the Almighty sees all our actions, I feel fear and anxiety.

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I believe it is easier to wait for a stroke of luck and God's support than to exhaust oneself with hard labor.

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When I have no relationship, I always work late; when I do have one, I stop working effectively.

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Devoted service to the Almighty is far more important in this life than trying to achieve everything on one's own.

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I believe children are an extension of their parents and must obey them.

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I do everything so my child achieves the heights in the field where I failed, and I hope they will become a better version of me.

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I believe that teaching children is the job of educators and teachers — my role is to punish and control.

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My children (or employees) enjoy my oversight and are willing to cooperate with me.

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I give children freedom according to their readiness: the older they are, the more freedom they get.

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I control my children very closely, even if they dislike it, so they do not go astray or do something foolish.

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If a child does something bad once, I do not give them freedom, so they do not repeat the mistake.

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I always try to explain and teach my child when they do not understand something, and I try to do this without negative emotions.

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I try to put more burden on the older child and indulge the younger one more.

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If the younger and older child fight, I punish the older one, because the younger one cannot protect themselves.

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